In her garden it’s the sweet perfume that I remember. Her little bed of roses.
She broke her back in a car accident in the 1930’s and was bent over and frail. We used to laugh saying she was so wrinkled that her wrinkles had wrinkles. She was strict and made us eat things we didn’t like, but always only one or two bites. Because of her I will try anything once……
Because of her I love the fading grandeur of roses, of crumpled faces and the curled up edges of smiling eyes. In a world paranoid about aging I still love the beauty of autumn leaves, vulnerable yet eye catching as any bud in spring.
The gravelly voice, would repeat her favourite rhyme, “her foot slipped, down she fell and broke her alikaboozalam” I never tired of hearing it or of gazing into that puckered up old face full of joy.
PS Updated portfolio based on the seasons here
marijke says
Catherine each post of you I wondering if you are a professional writer. I can't tell you how many times people are telling me to use make-up to show younger and more beautiful. But I have the meaning the beauty is coming from inside despite the wrinkles or age. Lovely photo's you have made from the roses.
Have a wonderful sunday.
Foxglove Lane Studio says
I must say I'm enjoying the fantasy of being a professional writer as you have described!! I wish. And yes beauty comes from the inside but the world doesn't seem to buy into that concept too much:~)
Willow says
How beautiful, to age gracefully and be treasured .
Foxglove Lane Studio says
I think many old ladies are exactly that, treasured!!
Cait O'Connor says
The first and last pics blow me away – as they say.. I wrote a poem about an autumn rose, I shall try and dig it out.
Foxglove Lane Studio says
Cait it's rose season for sure, would love to see it:~)
jazzygal says
Beautiful, words and photos. 'the fading grandeur' of roses struck a chord with me.
Sounds like a very fascinating woman in your life 🙂
xx Jazzy
Foxglove Lane Studio says
Thanks, I have always admired that older generation:~))
Kerry O'Gorman says
Even in aging and decay there's beauty….love the little rhyme!
Foxglove Lane Studio says
Thanks Kerry, haha, yes her version of very naughty:~))
Down by the sea says
Beautiful pictures and memories.
Sarah x
Foxglove Lane Studio says
Thank you !!
Mairéad says
Valuable advice to appreciate the beauty in growing old and a lovely tribute to someone special in your life.
Foxglove Lane Studio says
I hope I remember to take my own advice Mairead:~)
Zena says
Gorgeous photos and text… thanks for the reminder, living in this society makes not easy to find the beauty in ageing gracefully
Foxglove Lane Studio says
How true Zena,we better keep reminding ourselves!
wendyroomcreations says
Wonderful words and pictures as ever. It's odd that somehow I mind the greying hair less than the wrinkles. I think I need to concentrate on your rose images a little more. Philippa xx
Foxglove Lane Studio says
I agree the wrinkles are hard to admire, but I always do on OTHER people!!!
socialbridge says
My very favourite of all your posts and that's really saying something!
Foxglove Lane Studio says
Thank you Jean, you are always too kind altogether!
Gotham Girl says
So much imagination and passion…love, love, love! And really loving your "about" photo!
Foxglove Lane Studio says
Ah sweet Gotham Girl, we must decide to grow old gracefully and with all your dynamism thrown in to the mix:~))
Kerri Farley says
These are beautiful!! and what a sweet remembrance!
PS – I've added this to StumbleUpon – and also to my "flowers" list on SU here –http://www.stumbleupon.com/lists/543071332966090896/flowers
Foxglove Lane Studio says
Thank you so much Kerri, you must give me a Stumble lesson some day…..it goes right over my head:~))
Donna@Gardens Eye View says
Incredible images of a gorgeous apricot rose…a favorite color but I do not have one yet in my garden…I must remedy that. What lovely memories too…I can see those "crumpled faces and the curled up edges of smiling eyes" in the images of the roses here!!
Foxglove Lane Studio says
You must get an apricot rose Donna, as a reminder of the beauty of wrinkles:~))
Annie @ knitsofacto says
Roses look so good as they fade, not all flowers fare so well. Beautiful images and sentiments as always Catherine 🙂
Foxglove Lane Studio says
True Annie, wouldn't exactly identify with a fading daisy in quite the same way!!!
george says
A rose by any name….